anxiety

Trying to fix your partner exhausts you

Why Trying to Fix Your Loved One is Exhausting You — and What To Do Instead

So many women find themselves caught in the role of “fixer.” Whether it’s a partner battling addiction, a child making reckless choices, a sibling who’s chronically broke, or a friend whose relationships are always in tatters — we pour our energy, time, and even money into trying to solve their problems.

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Woman looking toward a bright horizon beneath storm clouds, illustrating negativity bias and how the brain tends to focus on negative experiences.

Negativity Is Not Your Fault: Understanding Your Brain’s Negativity Bias

I learned something fascinating this week. A fact that was both fascinating and empowering and also left me with a sense of relief. Negativity is not our fault. Our brains are wired to see the worst in any situation and prepare us to fight or flee. But we can train our brains to be positive instead.

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Do something positive instead of worrying. Action is the antidote for anxiety.

I have always found that taking some sort of positive step, even the tiniest one, towards the problem can help lower my anxiety level. Doing something, even if it is just writing down a list of possible actions, gives me comfort in that I am actually doing something to solve the problem or prevent it from happening.

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